FEAR

FEAR.

The crippling emotion that brings millions to their knees daily. The apprehension that holds so many back from becoming the best version of themselves that they can possibly be. The emotion that kills confidence, charism and causes endless self doubt. The emotion that keeps us from dominating at work or approaching the opposite sex. It holds us back when attempting to start new ventures and has the ability to stop us from making positive transformations.

Fear keeps us stagnant and says hell no, to breaking bad habits and creating new ones. It has the ability to eradicate love, financial freedom, physical and emotional success and happiness.

This shit has a stranglehold on most people and you need to start taking proactive steps to confront the emotions that have plagued you for far to long.

But this is more complex than just forgetting or deleting past memories. It’s an active and successful approach that involves repeatedly confronting those emotions that will eventually let us break free. The time we put into those fear based thoughts is time wasted and leads to a life missed.

If you had twelve months to live what would you do? I sure as fuck wouldn't sit in fear any longer. I understand its not an easy task to overcome, no one ever said it would be. But with hard work and self improvement, you can do this. I did, and I guarantee you, you can as well.

It took me thirty five years to start living and understanding life. Thirty five years to finally gain a high level of self confidence and experience new things. To not fear the unknown and what others may think. To get out of my comfort zone and get involved with things I never thought were even possible. Thirty five years to finally open my heart to love. Thirty five long years.

Life is short and its time to start living. Not merely surviving, but truly living. Living fully and vibrantly. To quote a very well known motivational speaker, When the end comes, you will ask three very important questions. Did I live? Did I love? and Did I matter? I sure as hell intend to do all three. You hate your job, get a new one. You want to run your own business, do it. You want to one day travel the world or make a million dollars? Make a plan and get moving.

One day your going to look back and ask those three questions. So while today is here, live it, create it and make it happen. Make a difference and change lives. You can’t predict life’s uncertainties, so don't even waste your time trying. I wasted thirty five years trying to predict the future and worrying what was to come.

So take stock of your life and make a move. Experience something new every single day. Get out of your comfort zone and do something that scares the shit out of you. Jump, or life will pass you by, I promise you that.